What to do in order to have a remarkable date with the finest women
What to do when you ask her out for a date:
* It is always a very good idea to first have a relaxed and good chat with a woman. It is virually impossible to ask for a date if you don’t even have a clue whether the two of you match at all. You and she have to know whether or not your personalities and ideas of live are attuned with each other. If you don’t it’s too obvious what you want from her.
* In case you want to call her: It cannot harm to refer to the nice conversation the two of you had. Take a few good examples from it and tell her what this did to you. This will give her the feeling that you respect here and you do make her feel important. Only when you feel it’s time to ask her, do it. Be sincere, gentle and please forget about it if you feel the urge to ask her in a demanding way.
* Make sure you are alone with her when you ask her. It really is a bad idea to ask her out when she is surrounded by her friends. Just think about it; when she says ‘no’, both of you will be ashamed.
During the date:
* Make sure your appearance is impeccable. You never get a second chance for a first impression. Make sure your clothes are clean and tidy. Put some nice after shave on and be sure whatever you wear looks nice. For example, don’t put your jeans on when you are going to a nice restaurant. Don’t overdo in order to make a good impression. Be yourself and relaxed. Be the person you would like to meet as well. Be a gentleman she is charmed of and of which she can be proud off.
* Time is important. Please take care that you are on time. Make sure that all arrangements have been done in advance. This means, the reservation must be done in advance and your planning details are done way ahead of the time of the date. You will be surprised what a well planned date can do with the mind of your date. She will be amazed and impressed that you took so much time in planning a night with here. Oh….I think this speaks for itself, but make sure that you don’t have other appointments or must-do’s while being on the date.
* Be courteous. Make a remark from the heart about the way she looks. I mean this in a positive way. Make here feel secure and proud of herself. Put your telephone off while sitting at the table; I am sure that this will give her the feeling that you are only interested in her and that you want to be in the moment with her.
* Call her by her name. It is important to mention her name once in a while while you talk to her. This will comfort here and will give her a special feeling. It’s plain psychology in this case.
* Have a spontaneous smile on your face. Not only will she think that you have a very positive attitude, but it will also give her the message that you actually like to be with her.
* Women love humor. If you are able to make a woman laugh, you are already on first base. When she can laugh with you, she must have a good time and this is the basis for a positive atmosphere with the two of you. And you can be sure that she will remember this. Good times are worth to remember.
* Talk about her, not about you. Make sure you want to hear everything she has to say. Ask and try to understand every word she is saying. Don’t interrupt her at all times. Let her speak and give her the feeling that you understand what she is saying. Don’t judge anything, just understand what she is saying. Make her feel understood and at ease. Only give your opinion when she asks for it and ….make lots of eye contact.
* Truthfulness is the key. When she asks tell her what you do in life and what makes your heart beat faster. The golden rule is simple; if she doesn’t like what you are or do, she is not worth your time. The same applies to you; if you don’t like her, you are not worth her time. Hear her out about her work, attitude towards work, hobbies and other stuff she loves to do. Be careful and sincere while you start these conversations.
* At ease soldier!. Forget the fact that she may not like you or that she isn’t enjoying the time with you. If you hesitate, ask her (truthfulness rule). Just make sure that you are yourself and that you enjoy the time being with here. Keep the conversation light and ask many questions. But….be truthful.
* Don’t be a teaser. Don’t try to be somebody you are not. This is not how to spend your and her time. The truth will come out sooner or later. So forget this strategy. And what is the relation worth if you only can keep up the appearance. It’s so rewarding if somebody dumps you because she doesn’t like you (it will save you money, hassle and lots of time) or if she really likes you for who you are.
* Never do a comparison of!. She can never win as she has no details of the comparison. Especially if you compare her with your last girlfriend. Every person is unique, so is her personality. You cannot reveal every aspect of a person in a one night date!. Give it time and let it evolve. You might be surprised what new benefits this person can hold within. If you start to compare, you know for sure, that you will lose.
* A guaranteed way to mess up the evening; tell about the reasons why you broke-up with your last relation. First of all, this is not fun. You don’t want to remember why you broke-up and she will not like this story at all. She is not your psychiatrist. She doesn’t want to know all this. The past is the past, the future is not here yet; the now moment is the only moment you have. Start to digg into her, get to know her, start a funny conversation and start seeking mutual interests.
* Enjoy the now moment. Meeting someone new should be a rush; exiting and adventurous. Men don’t pick up small details as woman; they know whether or not you like to spend time with her. Don’t break your leg because you are doing the best you can in order to make this date the PERFECT date. The only thing you need to do: Enjoy it. You are sitting with a woman because you liked the idea to sit with her and have a nice conversation in order to get eachother. Just be and make some fun.